It’s OOB O’Clock! Don’t Make Me Say it’s Okay and more in the November 2026 Merlin Messenger
There’s nothing like your first time. It was 1987 and I was in third grade when I saw my first live musical. My big sister, Hilary, had a featured role in the Riley Elementary Fifth…
I begged. I bribed. I cajoled. I scolded. I punished. But I could not make my kids be quiet on the weekend mornings. Sleeping in on the weekend is one of my favorite things, especially…
I didn’t know the color of the house I lived in. For years I thought it was one color: beige. Then a few years ago, my whole family signed the pledge for Screen Free Week…
“Once I get through this and things settle down, I’ll be fine.” This might be the lie I tell myself most often. When have things ever settled down? After my kids were born? My divorce?…
You don’t need to tell your kids not to chew on rocks. The rocks will teach them that lesson. No need to shout, “No! Yucky! We don’t eat rocks!” How silly. At least that’s what…
“You need to respect my boundaries” is a very common yet misleading statement. Boundaries are extremely popular these days and a highly important, but often misunderstood tool. Boundaries are not expectations for other people’s behavior.…